You're holding back. You think you're doing all you can to move forward, but you're hanging onto comfort and excuses and you feel stalled and frustrated. When you start, you throw yourself out there, but then the "what if's" set in. -- What if things don't work out? What if I embarrass myself? What if I'm not ready? Stop holding yourself back. The only "what if" you should be asking is, What if I don't?